June 19, 2009...2:50 am

Is Daycare and Narcissism Interlinked? How could it not be?

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It is my opinion that the opposite of sound factually based logic is selfish humanist emotion. A conservative is by nature going to deal with facts and to make judgements based on the facts as they pertain to moral and ethically just internal compass. A true Conservative is not to be swept up into the free for all of whim, marketing, the crowd mentality or selfish need or greed. A Conservative by nature would take the long way or the road less traveled to reach a destination, not a shortcut.

The liberal in my summation takes the emotional route. Having no convictions other than those of feeling and whim or fancy they are allowed to float along and have convictions that vary, alter or are situational. It’s proven out time and time again such as Nancy Polosie’s vote to keep Samoa from the minimum wage increase because of her husbands financial interests in Samoa. Or Feinstine’s interests in China. Or Gores financial interests in Green businesses. Don’t get it confused now, a Conservative is not a “Republican” by any stretch of the imagination. Today’s liberal is much more Republican that many Republicans.

An example of such decision making can be found Biblicaly in Kings 3:5-14 wherein King Solomon is asked to decipher the true identity of the mother of a baby when two women are arguing the case that they each are the rightful mother. We all know that there cannot be two mothers, so “cut the baby in half” was his judgement to see what mother said “ok” and what mother would rather keep her child alive as she was the one with a vested interest in the well being of the child. The problem is that today the liberal in their selfish banter cut all babies in half and they stand around in the rain getting soaked and begging for someone to bring them an umbrella, instead of looking around to find an awning to huddle under until the clouds pass. It is rather amazing how when a person is filled with themselves how blind they become to truth and reality. NO ONE is going to bring you an umbrella. Get used to it… and if they do this time… Don’t bank on it next time around.

One thing that a liberal will take offense to is that I am referencing the “Bible”… It’s ok because it’s fear. How else could someone have disdain for the Bible and simply because they believe “Religion” is part of the Bible (and it’s not) that somehow Gandhi is more acceptable because (I don;t know, it makes no sense so I can’t help you)? If you were offended I used a story in the Bible as a metaphor… You might want to pick it up read it through like my Islamic friends have. Even they are not afraid of self evaluation… They actually believe in it too. The first half that is.

So the same folks that would have morals and ethics taken down from schools such as the 10 commandments are the same folks that sit around and wonder why is their little Johnie is acting up and in the worst cases showing traits of narcissism. This now pertains to the non-Conservative non-liberal as the greedy and selfish republicans desire to have it all with the aid of the Merchant banks. I cannot for the life of me understand why someone would work day in and day out for a second home, an RV, Boat ect and do so at the risk of spending their lives in misery having to raise their entire life the forever damaging and corrosive son or daughter turned narcissist??

Interesting isn’t it? The majority of fools running around on the news each night looking for answers as to “why did this tragedy need to happen…” and the answer is on just during the very commercials that support their program. A sick cycle of violence they themselves promote in their need to “Earn your trust in News!” If I were a betting man, I’d say the reason that the Media is behind the Democratic party is because they understand that abortion, the lack of principles morals and ethics, situational thinking and the deceiving of young minds in colleges brings the inevitable chaos needed to promote their own shows. Yes, it’s only a small percentage of “crazies” that they need to send over the edge to get enough footage for their 8am, 10am, 12pm, 3pm, 5pm, 7pm and 11pm News Days.

For a person to believe that we, within ourselves have the answers and that (and many are) Ph.D’s are quacks and that there is no such thing as narcissistic personality disorder are literally insane. Yes, if you do not know about narcissism you are insane. I can say that without fear of being discredited because my eyes have seen the glory… In fact, I have seen this now twice and Borderline personality disorder I have witnessed first hand now once. One like my Ex I do not know the cause of but from the many things she said when she was younger the mother something… I do not know. Maybe didn’t hold her enough and that was enough for her mind to find that happy place od malignant self love. One was out on the streets when she was 13/14 and fending for herself and many more things when she was younger as well. I am not the focus of the later’s rage so I can finally witness it without being emotionally involved and for all that I have studying it with me, it is a real eye opener… Once you learn the traits, you will never be the same in a crowd again… At least that’s what I see right now as my mind focuses on the futility of it all. The BPD is a family member and they have had serious childhood trauma. Usually the genders are reversed but in most things in my life, I get the oddities I’m beginning to notice. Having pretty thick skin, I guess that’s only fair.

The narcissist, the greedy or the liberal all believe that they, within themselves, have the right and the intelligence to make any decisions they choose and they do not need to be a shamed of any decisions they make. That worry of right and wrong is paramount in a human and it’s removal can only bring ugliness into a persons life. When moral and ethical laws are restrictive and unwanted in times when the young are growing more and more in numbers to showing symptoms and traits of narcissism… What, the water? Cow milk or meat? High voltage lines? No, not because mommy and daddy are abandoning their youngest children in day care facilities at the youngest of ages to go off and afford the car, watches and keeping up with “The Who Cares.” No, that could be… Because that would lead me to validating my very first sentence… and you don’t want that too happen, now do you?

Narcissism is believed to be trauma or the emergence of PTSD in a situation or the lack of nurturing in a child from ages 6 months to 6 years. It can be found in the adult Vet’s returning from war, car accidents victims and other traumas that occur in adults but from most accounts this form of PTSD wears off when the subjects injuries heal or through light therapy. Those that are subject to PTSD at a younger age are much harder to reverse and in most cases impossible as the subject does not believe he or she has anything wrong with them. They have always lived this way in their own minds so “what’s your issue, I’m fine!”

So with whom are you leaving your children with? Your wife or husband? You willing to run the risk that my Ex’s parents did? I wish I could give out the father of my Ex’s email address and he would actually answer the emails sent to him… asking him how wonderful his life has been with a daughter narcissist.  The Ex alleged that one of the BF had a gun when he was found stalking the family home… It is my assumption it was out to rid the Ex of the “problems” she would fabricate in her dream world of deceit and manipulation. Manipulating those she showed the most rage and hate towards in a covert emotionally abusive manner and using the father as her focus of anger and deceit. The books say that if the pain is perceived to be done by the mother, then the anger is towards the father for allowing it to happen or something like that or vice versa in gender. What one of you in your family is little Johnnie going to go after? What one of you takes them to day care?

(The author is single and living in California. If it takes moving to Kansas to live decent but have a one income home, you can bet your arse I’ll be living in Kansas and my wife will be home with our children nurturing them. I’ll run the risk of a 1000 other issues… Not the obvious in my opinion.)

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